"can we compare the so called safety and money involved in surrogacy with the emotions of an Indian surrogate mother?"

No matter we are heading towards globalisation and modernization, still being an Indian woman i am sure that we are emotionally bound with our morals and values more than anyone else in this whole world. Then how can an Indian woman (after keeping a child in her womb for 9 months) gets separate from her child. It i s absolutely fine with those people who search for a surrogate mother outside their country, where they dont have any contact with the lady after she gave the birth to a child, however what about that surrogate mother whose surrogate child is always in front of her eyes like you mentioned in your article"surrogacy is soaring in india" how a lady comes forward to her sister becoming a mother or we can say 'a complete woman'. Can an Indian woman let off her emotions and mothely affection for dat child?. Just to justify my statements and questions, i would like to give an example of a very realistic bollywood movie starring tabu and sushmita sen(surrogate mother). In the movie the realationship between the two best friends starts gettin bitter and bitter just because the man hd started caring about her wife's friend more, because the surrogate mother gets attached to her friend's husband and her chid's father and most important because the surrogate mother gets attached to (her) surrogate child.

I do agree that surrogacy is safe and cheaper in India, however there still remains a question in my mind- What about the emotions, sentiments and mental status of an Indian surrogate mother?In simple sentences i want to ask everone of us especially women folk- how much mentally strong are we to deal with such a kind of situation? What about the mental status of that surrogate mother who gave the (her) child to someone else after nurturing the child for nine months in her womb ? What kind of mental pressure do they suffer from?

We can save our future generation

I think we hve already realised dat our parents r always ryt...Watever dey think is ryt for us is only for our benefit...Now its our turn to save the future generation.... We hve seen dere r parents who r friendly wid dere children... still...dere r so many cases of unsafe sex, unsafe abortions among teenage gals... y is dis so wen ourparents r tryin soooo hard to meet all aur requirements n dey r successful at some extent.....y r cases of rapes n molestion still prevail in our society... y r children so depressed n frustratin in dis 21st century inspite f all dere needs hve ben fulfilled...... we really need to think over dese issues so dat we can save our future generation, we can save our children... its my humble request to every1 f u to come forward n discuss dese vital issues.....

papa is alwayz rite

dis onez for gals who hve realised frm 1 or d other experience dat watever papa says is always rite.... u can share ur feelings, ur experiences no matter how bitter dey are...bcoz m one f u,, who hve realised datmy papa is alyz ryt